arXiv:2611.13457v1 Announce Type: new Abstract: As AI agents become increasingly capable, users must still recognize when and how to ask for help, leaving many opportunities for useful support unrealized. Proactive agents hold the promise to close this gap, but effective proactivity requires understanding users' real-time activities and personalizing intervention timing so that assistance is offered when it is likely to be helpful rather than disruptive. We introduce deep personalization, a closed-loop process that connects continuous context observation with continual agent adaptation: an agent observes user activity, selectively retains long-term context, and adapts intervention decisions from implicit feedback. We initiate deep personalization in Coco, a proactive desktop agent, by having a separate Observer Agent that monitors desktop activity, maintains compact long-term user modeling context, and learns when assistance is desirable from implicit signals such as engagement, dismissal, explicit requests, and repeated work patterns. We further develop efficient on-device strategies to enable the Observer Agent to run on local AI compute platforms without streaming raw activity data off-device. For evaluation at scale without collecting sensitive real-user activity, we introduce a data-synthesis pipeline that transforms existing computer-use trajectories into OSWorld-Persona, a benchmark with persona-conditioned intervention labels. On OSWorld-Persona, deep personalization improves macro F1 across three model backbones from 0.12-0.19 under direct prompting to 0.35-0.48 after adaptation, a 2.4-3.0x relative gain. In a week-long user study, we observe that Coco improves its macro-averaged F1 score from 0.199 to 0.515. These results suggest that on-device deep personalization can make proactive agents more timely and increasingly aligned with each user's everyday work.